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cord234
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There's been a few threads discussing various turn ons and turn offs on this site, and I was just wondering where everyone stands on scars. I myself have three scars from surgery, one about an inch long above my belly button and then one an inch long or so to the side of the other, and the final one down about two inches from my belly button. I've often wondered how these scars affected people's attractions, and I'd like to hear from everyone their opinion on scars.
Posted: Jun 12th, 2010 10:46:38 pm |
wateriestfire
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according to my own research, it depends on many factors including severity of the scar and scar location.. From what I've read women like men with scars and men don't like women with scars.
Posted: Jun 13th, 2010 04:04:46 am |
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I would have to agree with wateriesfire on the factors,
concerning scars.
I guess it depends on a lot things, combat wounds compared
to cutting your hand with a open can lid. Or maybe the pot
marked face of the adult, who didn't do much to treat their
acne as child. Stuff like that.
Just remember "Beauty is the eye of the beholder" :-)
Posted: Jun 13th, 2010 04:25:50 am |
wateriestfire
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Basically for guys it all has to do with how "bad-ass" the scare is
Posted: Jun 13th, 2010 04:31:22 am |
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I have a very large scar on the back of my right leg from a run in with a barb wire fence... I honestly forget that it's there most of the time.
I have other little scars from various pets and the fact that I'm a klutz.
I can't say I mind scars on a guy or girl... espeically if they have an interesting story behind them.
Posted: Jun 13th, 2010 12:31:40 pm |
cord234
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I find that I actually like some scars on a girl from time to time. It's interesting to me, adds a bit of mystery. How did it get there? How old was she when she got it? How badly did it hurt? Etc.
Posted: Jun 14th, 2010 06:35:53 pm |
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Not a big fan of scars, mainly because I have way too many of them. All from things ranging from silly (a crazy rabid sidewalk attacked my bike, and then me when I hit the ground) to stupidity on my part (hit myself in the head with a crowbar... Nuff said...), to ones caused by someone elses stupidity (which cost me a finger... Thank you, non-English speaking and reading @$$bag...)
Posted: Jun 18th, 2010 05:08:34 am |
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i like scars on anime girls but not really in real life
Posted: Jun 23rd, 2010 10:49:25 pm |
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I don't mind scars. To me, they're a sign of experience and character. If a woman is beautiful, she's beautiful, and I've seen some realy bad scars. That includes c-sections! And to damageincracing:I can match you 2 out of three, but I've still got all 10 digits, though I may catch up soon! (For me it was a rabid wall, not a sidewalk, and the threaded end of a steel pipe instead of a crowbar-both from my own stupidity!)
Posted: Jul 1st, 2010 03:55:46 am |
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I got one under my bottom lip...was a toddler, I jumped off my bed and skinned said bottom lip. Then for no reason, I yanked the stitches off...nothing serious, just a scar there.
And to be fair, it's probably hidden because of my beard.
Posted: Jul 1st, 2010 07:36:26 am |
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I don't mind scars unless their the ones that poke out and they would have to be pretty big to turn me off
Posted: Jul 1st, 2010 09:11:09 am |
FutaPuta
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Scars are what they are. I don't really mind them if they're not on the face.
Posted: Jul 1st, 2010 09:22:43 am |
cord234
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I actually don't mind facial scars if they're well placed. Again the mystery does it for me, and if the scar is facial, then there's really no hiding it and it makes an interesting conversational piece.
Posted: Jul 1st, 2010 12:16:40 pm |
JoeMcBob
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My arms are scarred and I did it myself. Spilled my own blood to show my loyalty.
Posted: Jul 9th, 2010 01:30:26 pm |
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I have one from surgury, then I have a couple I did to myself by wiping out on my bike numurous times. Then, I have a few from an abusive grandparent when I was young.
Posted: Jul 9th, 2010 10:18:17 pm |
cord234
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At the above post:
See that's what I'm talking about. All those scars you have tell some sort of story, most of which sound like pretty good ones to me. I love that kind of stuff.
Posted: Jul 9th, 2010 11:38:14 pm |
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I occasionally get temporary ones from my cat...
Shut up! The little guy's a real fighter when you're just walking by! >.<
Posted: Jul 10th, 2010 01:40:47 pm |
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I have a couple of nasty scars.
One is on my abdomen, from an appendectomy. It's a daily reminder of how lucky I am to be alive. I don't like it, but I know that without it, I wouldn't be here.
I have a barely noticeable one just below my right knee. It's very smooth. It's because I thought it'd be bad ass to ride my bike off the porch once. Yeah. Stick right in the leg.
Posted: Jul 21st, 2010 11:42:52 am |
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i've got a few scars. nothing major, just nice little reminders of the stupid shit i used to do.
Posted: Jul 21st, 2010 07:03:29 pm |
cord234
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At Jent: nice. I would be seriously proud and stoked to be sporting the appendectomy scar. The surgery would suck, but the scar would rock.
Posted: Jul 22nd, 2010 01:14:27 am |